Merry Christmas to you! Hope your day is joyous and full of laughter and delight! Ours has been. The storms parted long enough this afternoon for a Christmas picnic lunch and swim with friends. (This week reported the 3rd highest rainfall in the history of Singapore!)



May we be more enraptured with His love and mercy than all our new toys.
Love to you today,
the Wallaces

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Hello, all!
This story below is an adaptation from a story I've heard before, designed to share with our neighbors (who in Singapore have mostly never heard...) the meaning of Christmas. Feel free to bake up some sugar cookies to hand out and use it in your neighborhood too. (OK, it works with or without cookies!) Or just remind yourself again for the first, or thousandth time!

Merry Christmas! We hope you enjoy this Christmas story…

The Christmas Birds: One man’s reflections on the meaning of Christmas

One night during the Christmas season, there was a man who was watching a winter storm from his cozy home. (He lived a long way from Singapore!) As Christmas drew closer, he wondered, “What’s the big deal about Christmas? I mean what’s so special about the birth of this baby they call Jesus?” As he reflected, he went to the window to see the flurries getting heavier and heavier. Then he went back to his chair by the fireside. A moment later, he was startled by a thudding sound, then another, and then another. At first he thought someone must be throwing snowballs against the window, but when he went to the front door, he found a flock of birds huddled miserably in the snow. They had been caught in the storm. Trying to get back to safety, they tried to fly through his large landscaped window.

He could not let the poor creatures freeze! He immediately thought of the barn where they kept the farm animals. That would provide a warm shelter, if he could direct the birds to it. Quickly he put on his coat and boots and tramped through the deepening snow to the barn, opening the doors wide and turning on the lights. But the birds did not come in.

He figured that food would entice them in. So he hurried back to the house and fetched bread crumbs. He spread them on the snow, making a trail to the wide open doorway of the stable. But to his dismay, the birds ignored the crumbs and continued to flop around helplessly in the snow. He tried to catch them and shoo them into the barn, running and waving his arms, but this too failed. They just scattered in every direction except to the warm barn. Then he realized they were afraid of him.

He realized that to these tiny birds, he was a strange and terrifying creature. Anything he did made them frightened and confused. They would not follow.

“If only I could think of some way to let them know that they can trust me… To let them know that I’m not trying to hurt them but help them… But how?”

“If only I could be a bird, and mingle with them… speak their language and tell them not to be afraid… and show them the way to the safe warm barn…But if I were to do that, I would have to be one of them, so they could see, and hear and understand…”

At that moment, the man’s heart was gripped. Not for the birds, but for the true meaning of Christmas. His mind began to spin as thoughts flooded his head. He realized that what he wanted to do for the birds, the message of Christmas claims that God has done this for mankind in Jesus. Could this be true?

He finally understood why the birth of the baby Jesus celebrated on Christmas was so significant—if it was true. He had heard the story—that Jesus was God’s son, and that He became a man—this tiny baby born on Christmas morning. A baby who cries like one of us. A child who plays like one of us. A man who knows what it is like to be one of us. What tremendously loving God would stoop as low as a helpless baby to make Himself known to us?

And yet, He knew there was more to the story. That tiny baby of Christmas morning grew up! He’d heard stories about Jesus healing the blind and the lame. He heard that Jesus believed He died to save us from our sins and give us eternal life—and then rose from the dead! He had even heard that Jesus himself claimed to be God. Could these things be true? Maybe Jesus was crazy, he reasoned. Or maybe He was lying... but that didn’t make sense. Everyone knows Jesus was a wise, good man. But he himself said he was God. Could it be true? Maybe not, but if it was—what a gracious, loving and beautiful God!

He picked up a booklet he’d found years before and read it through.

1. God created us for His glory, to know Him, live for Him, tell of His greatness.

"So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God" (1 Corinthians 10:31).

2. Every man has failed to glorify God as He is owed (called sin), and deserves God’s justice.

"All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans 3:23).

"The wages of sin is death..." (Romans 6:23).

3. Yet, in God’s mercy, He sent His own Son, Jesus, to pay the penalty for our sin and restore us to God.

"For Christ died for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring us to God" (1 Peter 3:18).

4. Forgiveness, eternal life and unending joy with God are promised to those who repent of their sin and put their trust in Jesus.

"Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out" (Acts 3:19).

“The wages of sin is death…but the free gift of God is eternal life in Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23)

"Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved" (Acts 16:31).

Was THIS the meaning of Christmas? No wonder this baby was so special! If these things were true, then the man knew that He couldn’t just put his Christmas decorations away and forget about this baby. He knew that if it was true, then he must respond to this message and it would change his life. Part of him wanted to forget about the whole thing. After all, in just a week, the lights and colors of Christmas would be past.

But what if it was true?

You can read the words of Jesus for yourself in the Bible, the gospel of Luke.

You can also find in the Bible the references listed in red.

Christmas tree before the destruction, (see below).

It seems it will be a quiet Christmas around Kentish Green. Some of our close neighbors will be traveling. It adds to this feeling I've been having about the holidays. Here it is-- "I'm responsible to make it just right for our family and create all these Wallace family traditions of our own that our girls will remember when they start their own families, and I don't even know how to make a turkey!! AH!"

Last year since we had just arrived in Singapore, it just seemed not-quite-right because we didn't know anyone. Now it seems not-quite-right because...why?

Is it the 90 degree weather while "Let It Snow" is playing on the CD player?
Is it wondering where in the world we will be living by NEXT Christmas?
Is it longing for a store like MJ Designs or Hobby Lobby where I could find some decorations for, say, under $50??

OK, it's not that bad.

We had our tree up-- actually on Thanksgiving day. Since daddy could only take Thurs. off and we wanted to do it together, this was our only choice. (Since I've promised Kathryn for months we would most certainly do it the day after thanksgivng, even waiting till Saturday was far too late!) She was so delighted to put up the tree. Now instead of waking me up first thing in the morning, she turns on the lights and sits on the bean bag in front of the tree. Many of the ornaments, however, are dying painful deaths. Slow, agonizing, multiple-injury deaths by toddler. The survivors have slowly migrated to the top half of the tree so now the bottom half is barren.

And we started our first advent wreath this year. It's actually not a wreath. It's 4 candles circled around a bigger candle. It's drama and some singing as we make a dash to rescue curious fingers from the flame. So yes, we have begun a stab towards our own family traditions.

So what's missing? I think it's that I can't make it the same as my childhood. I suppose it's me letting go of expectations, letting go of the feeling that I must provide for our girls something like Christmas as I remember it. Letting go of the responsibility to do it "right" and just learning to do it together.

Maybe there's freedom in that. And maybe Jesus can come and be our guest here, at our little family Christmas celebration here in Singapore, even if I don't know how to make a turkey.